in response to woman55... do you have any nieces or nephews who may be able to look after them; I know you don't like the idea of putting them in a home but it's a lot to ask of someone to care for them when you're gone; if a niece or nephew can put them in a home they can check up on them regularly and take them on outings when they can and they will feel a lot of love from those occasional visits; I too have a disabled son and I'm getting older I don't know what will happen when I'm gone but I have 12 nieces and nephews one nephew in particular who may be able to help because he is so young now and he is not disabled like some of my nieces and other nephew. My only other child passed away several years ago I was hoping he could look out for my younger son but now he is gone unexpectedly. I know how hard it is to trust someone with your precious child but you're going to have to do the wise thing and make a plan some type of solid plan and don't leave here without preparing for those children.
